Marriage by Mary

It is my honor as a wedding officiant to work with couples to create and conduct customised wedding ceremonies that can be traditional, spiritual, multi-faith, secular, or very nontraditional. It is my mission as a marriage officiant to conduct a wedding ceremony that uniquely reflects the love story of each Bride and Groom. I am also a wedding celebrant for gay and lesbian commitment ceremonies. These ceremonies contain vows, exchange of rings, and other unity rituals at the choice of the couple. As in all weddings, I work with gay or lesbian couples to have their ceremony declare their commitment to all who surround them on their special day. Legalities: Under the Marriage Act 1961 there are certain obligations that you, as a couple intending to get married, must meet prior to a marriage ceremony being solemnised. A Notice of Intended Marriage (NIM) must be lodged with your chosen Marriage Celebrant no less than one month and no more than eighteen months prior to the marriage being solemnised. It is not a requirement to lodge the NIM with the Registrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages (BDM). If you do this and decide to marry outside of the Registry you will lose money and will have to pay extra to have the NIM transferred to a Celebrant. Under normal circumstances the Notice of Intended Marriage would be completed at your first meeting with your Civil Marriage Celebrant and the required documentation must be produced to the Celebrant at that time, or certainly before the marriage can take place. Both parties are required to give a minimum month and a day notice. There are some exceptions; for instance if a partner is overseas or interstate and only one can sign that is acceptable. However, if these circumstances do not exist then both parties are required to give the month and a day notice. You are required to produce your original Birth Certificate, or authorised extract of such certificate. If you were born in Australia the Marriage Act insists that there is no reason why you can´t produce your birth certificate. Most Marriage Celebrants will be able to provide an application form for you to obtain one should you not have it. Although birth certificates are preferred, in the case of persons born outside of Australia a Marriage Celebrant can accept an overseas passport in lieu of the birth certificate. If that person cannot produce their birth certificate or overseas passport the Celebrant will take a Statutory Declaration with details of birth date, place and parents' names together with an explanation as to why the birth certificate is not available. IMPORTANT: An Australian passport cannot be accepted under any circumstances and statutory declarations only apply to persons born overseas. In the case of persons previously married an original copy of your Decree Absolute or, in the case of widowhood, an original copy of the Death Certificate must be produced. These documents MUST be produced before the marriage can take place so it is essential that you give yourself adequate time to acquire them if you have misplaced them. There are occasions when a marriage is "annulled" and where this happens documented evidence must be produced. Prior to your wedding, both partners will be required to sign a declaration, under the Marriage Act 1961, stating that you believe there is no legal impediment to the marriage between yourself and your partner. This is a legal document and calls for honesty at all times.